(Closed) I’m so furious and hurt

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

time to get out.  Not sure how long you knew him before you moved in.  .but the lies and lack of ambition clearly show he’s not the right guy for you.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Megan316:  This guy sounds like a habitual liar. That probably doesnt bode well…

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

You moved in together almost a year ago… does that mean your lease is almost up? Sounds like it’s time to move out.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Kick him out and find a roommate… your obligations are to your son first and foremost.

Post # 9
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8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

That sucks. Sit down and have a heart to heart with him, make it known that you cannot put up with any more lying.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Run away as fast as your legs will take you. You, and more importantly YOUR SON, deserve better than a husband/father who is not only a chronic liar, but is going to find himself bankrupted soon.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Sounds like you need to get you and your son out of there.  Either it will spur him into getting his life back on track or you will realize that you and your son don’t need that in your lives. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’d move out for sure and maybe break up..

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Agreed with everyone else… you’ve gotta get out of there.  He obviously didn’t care that he also signed a 2 year lease (please tell me he signed) and is having you cover his rent, maybe you should let him go ahead and start taking responsibility for that while you move you and your kid out of there?

 

Also, I can appreciate that you’ve known this guy for 10 years and this seems out of character, but when people show you who they truly are, no matter how ‘new’ this behavior seems to be, you need to believe them.  Don’t stay with this person.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Megan316:  You shouldn’t have to tell a grown man that it’s important to pay the rent so you can afford daycare.

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

No way you should have to put up with this.  He’s in major debt, defaulted on it, and what’s worse – lied to you about all of it, which is a complete and utter slap in your face.  Please be cautious going further down this road – if he’s headed somewhere bad he’ll drag you right along with him.  Put your son’s needs FIRST, and do what is best for him, most of all. 

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