(Closed) I’m so hurt…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

was it a bad pic? We have to be careful not to overreact especially to short comments via text or online. There is no to tone or body language to help us interpret intent. Something you might have laughed off in peson, can be taken the wrong way. You said you get along- let it go.

 

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Family, friends, significant others, we all irritate each other every now and then. It’s natural when you are that close to not censor your comments. Sometimes it comes out the wrong way or people just perceive it differently than you meant. Just let it blow over. I’m sure in a couple of days everything will be fine.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t understand why your Fiance go upset with what YOU said… what his sister said was much worse IMO.  :-/

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I agree that your FH should be irritated with his sister if he’s going to be irritated with anyone.

But I also agree that she probably wasn’t thinking.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m curious as to what the picture look like.  Was it legitly an awful picture?  Either way, I think your Fiance is over reacting, I mean, how the hell did he expect you to respond when someone says you look retarded?!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MsFoxxy:  I don’t understand why your Fiance go upset with what YOU said… what his sister said was much worse IMO.  :-/

I agree.  That’s kind of crappy.  I don’t blame you for being upset, because I would be too.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t want to be a meanie, but could she just have been joking and you’re overreacting? If I saw a funny/weird pic of a close friend I would laugh and say something silly too. That situation sounds like something was just maybe blown a little out of proportion.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

Clearly she must not have meant anything bad by it if she sent it to your Fiance when she knew you were with him and would see it. Your Fiance way overreacted.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Maybe she said that and didn’t mean to hurt you. Sometimes you get too comfortable with inlaws and then you say something that is not appropriate. The best thing is just to talk to her and say what you felt and maybe draw a line. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

@DeadUtopia:  I agree. Her comment is rude and childish but to say you are hurt, thats a bit dramatic.

Post # 13
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2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is a choose your battle moment.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

yeah I understand you overreacting to her comment like a previous poster said, sometimes thing via text are hard to comprehend since there’s no body language but your Fiance shouldn’t have gottan upset. she said something offensive, not you.

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