(Closed) I'm so insecure!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What should I do?
    Drop IT and just try to get over it, it happens : (4 votes)
    3 %
    Drop HIM he's an asshole , that should never have happened : (113 votes)
    78 %
    Talk to him and try working it out, love should conquer all : (27 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1019 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    woah… how long have you been together, and why didn’t he tell you BEFORE you got engaged? nuh uh. I don’t think that’s you being insecure, I think that’s just a sticky situation…of course you’d be jealous. He’s still married to her.

    Post # 5
    Member
    121 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    How long were you together before you got engaged?  If he is STILL married to her (even if divorce is pending) that should have been said BEFORE he asked you to marry him

    Trust your instincts, if you are thinking now is not a good time to be marrying this man, you are probably right.  Some couples counseling might do you some good.

    Best of luck!

    Post # 6
    Member
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Why are you mad at HER? It’s him you should be upset with, what is he doing getting engaged before his divorce is final? I would re-think this if I were you. Something doesn’t sound right here…

    Post # 7
    Member
    3775 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2004

    That is a total betrayal.  He has tricked you into a relationship with a married man.  I would not stick around.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1019 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @RobandLil0107:  I donno, I still think that’s kind of shady. Worst part being that he is in the MIDDLE of a divorce. not finalized the divorce… still not divorced… and you caught him in a lie (he tried to justify himself well I never said she was my ex girlfriend I said she was my ex ) bad bad bad.

    I would seriously… seriously sit down, talk to him, or just withdraw a bit/postpone engagement until he’s officially divorced? I don’t know…

    Post # 10
    Member
    11271 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    is he even working on his divorce?  or is he planning on just being “engaged” to you forever?

    i think your negative emotions are directed at the wrong person here.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1019 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @RobandLil0107:  you are jealous of her because he is still her man. but you should be pissed as hell at him.

    Post # 13
    Member
    3572 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I think you need to seriously question whether you can be in a relationship with this man.  Have you met his family?  Did he have a big wedding and is now having another?

    Post # 16
    Member
    121 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I have to agree with @mayflowerbride13

    He needs to go, ASAP.  It will not get any better once you are married.

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