(Closed) im so lonely…so hurt..

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m sorry you’re feeling that way, but what did he do to break your heart?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You only see him once a year?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ok so did he do something? why are you guys mad? LDRs are though not that you don’t know that. One thing I learned while in a LDR is that distance makes you mad for everything, so you need to work under those circumstances, he’s mad about something silly, doesn’t matter if you get mad too you loose cause if you don’t call/text each other you won’t talk at all. He’s mad, call himj until he answers and work things out. Communication’s the key. I hope everything goes well. (HUGS)

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I only saw my fiance once this year too. We have a rule that you’re only allowed to ignore the other person for less than a day. When we ignore each other the other one calls non stop until we answer and talk. You really have to be open and communicate. If he won’t answer then send an email or text message via skype.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m not sure I understand either? How did he break your heart? And you say you aren’t talking for 3 days… but you talked yesterday? And you could text him now? So it sounds like you could talk to him? I agree with PPs, keep talking to him until he talks to you, communication is the key. You’ll be living together soon and communication is so important.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@Bella88: reciprocating his perceived childishness with more of the same will not help. As PP’s have said – communication is key. Email, text, call, skype, until he answers and you can determine why he’s unhappy with you.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@Bella88: well why else wouldn’t he talk to you if everything’s fine between the two of you?  My husband doesn’t generally give me the silent treatment when he’s happy with me.

 

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