Post # 1
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Helper bee
i have a long distance relationship with my Fiance…we started a relationship back in 09.. im here his in germany..we know eaeach other since we were kids; family knows each other etc…every summer he visits me.. already a sigh; EVERY SUMMER..why cant it be every 6 months???
long distance is so hard…i fell like i have 10 heads…were not talking now for 3 days counting tomorrow..of course this has happened before..maybe now its different; because i ordered my dress..the hal is booked everybody is buying their dresses tux etc..
why the hell does something in my head say; im not gona married; im gona be lonely
what is my problem??? why i have to be so emotional…
i hate it right now..when im sitting in class, i dont care what the proffessor has to say; i think about should i text him???????????
but he broke my heart…..:(((
IM SO LONELY.,….
yes my eyes just got teary…time to listen : Everything that i do. i do it for you:”…
thank you for listening…
Post # 3
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Busy bee
I’m sorry you’re feeling that way, but what did he do to break your heart?
Post # 4
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Helper bee
ahh….he doesnt know how to man up and apologize …why is it so hard???besides that, why is he extending the stupid things..all excuses…..
Ah…i wish i can sleep until june 30 and see what happens.
Post # 5
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Sugar bee
You only see him once a year?
Post # 6
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Bumble bee
Ok so did he do something? why are you guys mad? LDRs are though not that you don’t know that. One thing I learned while in a LDR is that distance makes you mad for everything, so you need to work under those circumstances, he’s mad about something silly, doesn’t matter if you get mad too you loose cause if you don’t call/text each other you won’t talk at all. He’s mad, call himj until he answers and work things out. Communication’s the key. I hope everything goes well. (HUGS)
Post # 7
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Helper bee
yeap… what a life right,… thanks to msn skipe i guess..
Post # 8
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Helper bee
@Coffee cup: yesterday he was on msn and i said you want to talk? he said no…
i said few things and signed out..nothing since..
Post # 9
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Helper bee
I only saw my fiance once this year too. We have a rule that you’re only allowed to ignore the other person for less than a day. When we ignore each other the other one calls non stop until we answer and talk. You really have to be open and communicate. If he won’t answer then send an email or text message via skype.
Post # 10
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Helper bee
but its always pretty much me whos taking the steps..
im just tired….
Post # 11
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Sugar bee
I’m not sure I understand either? How did he break your heart? And you say you aren’t talking for 3 days… but you talked yesterday? And you could text him now? So it sounds like you could talk to him? I agree with PPs, keep talking to him until he talks to you, communication is the key. You’ll be living together soon and communication is so important.
Post # 12
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Helper bee
this sunday is his birthday, i mailed out his gift this monday…
ill probably only and only say ” happy birthday: and nothing else if were still not talking…
Post # 13
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Helper bee
@galloway111: well yesterday was just a matter of minutes; i asked you want to talk; he said no..i said have it your way and thats it…..
usually we talk about 2 hours or so because he works. 6 hours of diff and all thattt
im always putting my bestttt and i dont see it from him
and i hate ittttttttttt
Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
@Bella88: reciprocating his perceived childishness with more of the same will not help. As PP’s have said – communication is key. Email, text, call, skype, until he answers and you can determine why he’s unhappy with you.
Post # 15
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Helper bee
@hisgoosiegirl: why his unhappy with me??
thanks alot… never thought about that..i guess im the problem.
Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
@Bella88: well why else wouldn’t he talk to you if everything’s fine between the two of you? My husband doesn’t generally give me the silent treatment when he’s happy with me.