(Closed) im so lonely…so hurt..

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 18
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

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@Bella88: no, I didn’t. Even though I do feel like I’m reading Latin when I try to read your posts. What does he need to apologize for? What did he do to break your heart? What is he making excuses for?
You said yourself it’s not out of the blue, so something must have happened for him to not speak to you anymore.

Post # 20
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t know about anyone else but without telling us what exactly happened how can we help you. You could have started the thread by letting us in on what’s going on, it’s a bit unfair. I know long distance relationships can be very hard to deal with. You definately need to be on the same page with communication. If you’re needing advise I’ll try to help.

You’re asking us “why”(he’s the only one who can answer that)  

You asked him if he wants to talk, he say’s no. (if he’s upset with you, I can see why he wasn’t in the mood to talk, he was honest and said no)

You say a few things and sign out, then no communication since ( that’s not very good communication skills. If you really needed to talk to him you should have approached it “We really need to talk” then tell him what’s on your mind and let him reply)

You say he needs to apologize and he’s extending the stupid things and it’s all excuses (again, you didn’t tell us what’s going on)

The success of your relationship depends on how well you BOTH communicate with each other. You’re going to have more bumpy roads ahead if you don’t learn how to deal with an argument. Tell each other why you’re upset, recongise if you’re hurt one another, apologize and figure out how it can be avoided in the future.

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@Bella88: If he’s the one who broke your heart and you’re the one trying to fix it then yes that does sound tiring. I’m sorry I hope things turn out for the better.

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@Bella88: You arent making a lot of sense. But if you think youre ready for marriage you need to start acting like an adult and face your problems head on. If hes not talking to you, you need to find out why and not play stupid immature mind games. 

Post # 25
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

In order for your relationship to work, you need to take a more mature approach to solving problems. Tell him what you need instead of hinting, playing games, or crying about it. Don’t accept the silent treatment–ask what you did wrong instead of getting upset. 

Post # 26
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

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@MsNarwhal: +60494 things like this don’t get better once the rings are on the fingers.

Post # 28
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@Bella88: If you’re willing to accept the “That’s just how he is” thing, then you need to accept it instead of getting upset. 

Post # 29
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve read your last few posts and I’m so confused. I don’t mean to be rude but the way you write sentances is very confusing with broken english and words that don’t make sence. Can you please start from the beginning and tell us what happened and then maybe we can help.

Post # 30
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@Bella88: You just did answer me, sweetie. Be. An. Adult!!! Dont play “you are ignoring me, Im going to ignore you now!!” Two wrongs dont make a right…and dont get mad at me, your relationship has no affect on my life and you came on here soliciting advice. 

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