Post # 47
if i give you..some…insights…some of you will probably say; wow…you love him so muchhhhhhhh..he lovess you yesssssssssssssssss..and your still putting up with hes excuse my language b.s…
it will hurt me more if i were to go on to reasons and outcomes and all that…
im just hurt..emotionall..need to hear his voice and see him smile:(
Post # 48
you dont want to get it…you really dont..and forgive me but; please say no more..your not being helpfull to me.at all.
you never cried??never stopped talking to him??never reasoned???
well good for youuuuuuuuuuu
Post # 49
We are all fools in love!
Use whatever is happening right now to make you guys stronger as a couple and in communication. I know it feels good to be vague, and do the silent treatment when you are hurting & heart broken, but it actually is detrimental over all in the end.
Perhaps you could talk to a counselor or a trusted friend, since you are hearing these voices telling you about how you won’t get married, and you feel ashamed to be “emotional”.
Remember tomorrow is a new day! Thinking and praying for you in this difficult time !
Post # 50
I feel like this isn’t getting very far…
Post # 51
It sounds like he makes excuses for something that upsets you. If you tell us what it is you think we’ll tell you that you shouldn’t put up with that kind of behavior. Am I right?
Post # 52
thank you so much….that was very kind of you like most who took the time and gave me advice…
Post # 54
She’s free to reply with her opinion all she wants. It’s an open forum, remember? In fact, I believe on the Bella’s hair thread tonight, you replied with nothing helpful and the OP asked you not to comment, yet you continued to do so. You can’t have it both ways.
If you are unhappy with no one agreeing with you, ask a mod to close the thread.
Post # 55
From what I made out of your post directed at me. No, I never stopped talking to my Fiance, because that is not a way to solve anything.
And I completely agree.
Post # 56
@Ill Be Mrs B:
after we started talking..into 6 months and on…its like i saw second him… the guy who use to spend almost 8 hours for me non sleeping, me me me but meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
started to change…his voice…his words…his actions…the guy that never never would say words like; stupid; ouf of anger go and dont come back, ur this and this and thissssssssssssssssssss
started saying this…is it the long distance?? yes he does tell mee im tireddddd of thiss why couldnt you be next to me..i say the same thinggggggggggggggggggg
but never neverrrrrrrrrrrrr do or say things that he started to say often….
i cry at least every 10 days..why?????????????? am i that bad..we waited almost 3 years..just 6 more monthss….
im just getting emotional as i write.. i think thats all i want to say
YES: LOVE HURRTS….ITS A ROSE: AND A NEEDLE AT THE SAME TIME..
Post # 57
I completely gave up even trying to comprehend what was going on.
If I’m reading this correctly, your Fiance “broke your heart” just by saying that he didn’t want to talk to you? And you feel like you’re putting forth all of the effort and he’s not giving you anything back?
And basically, you want some sympathy. (Probably not any advice, seeing as how you didn’t provide enough information about your situation to make advice feasible.)
You should be getting out of your relationship whatever you put into it, and if you’re not and you’re unhappy, maybe you should consider backing off a little, and giving one another some space, until it’s possible for you to not be LDR anymore.
Post # 58
Long distance is so hard. When all you have is talk and email,open communication is so important. Maybe you could give us some more backround information about what he has done the broke your heart so we could give you more specific advice:)
Post # 59
gosh such simplecity is disaster all i know
Post # 60
Pot, meet kettle.
i say my opinions yes…and there isnt a rule that says; only say what other people want to hear
has nothing to do with respect,,,please dont act like you know me and try to incoporate respect into it ”
Also, can you please not excessively space your posts? No one else here types like this, and it is difficult to read/take you seriously when you throw extra spaces/letters onto words. For example: whyyyyyy???????????, reallllyyyyyyyyyy
Post # 61
i tried to share some of the things thats been bothering me ..what he says and does.. its like it will never finish when i write..the more i write the more it getsssssssssssssssssss
in couple of days lets see who calls who first..it will probably mee.