(Closed) im so lonely…so hurt..

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 49
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7286 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

We are all fools in love!

Use whatever is happening right now to make you guys stronger as a couple and in communication. I know it feels good to be vague, and do the silent treatment when you are hurting & heart broken, but it actually is detrimental over all in the end.

Perhaps you could talk to a counselor or a trusted friend, since you are hearing these voices telling you about how you won’t get married, and you feel ashamed to be “emotional”.

Remember tomorrow is a new day! Thinking and praying for you in this difficult time !

Post # 50
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2977 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I feel like this isn’t getting very far…

Post # 51
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It sounds like he makes excuses for something that upsets you. If you tell us what it is you think we’ll tell you that you shouldn’t put up with that kind of behavior. Am I right?

Post # 54
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5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

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@Bella88: She’s free to reply with her opinion all she wants. It’s an open forum, remember? In fact, I believe on the Bella’s hair thread tonight, you replied with nothing helpful and the OP asked you not to comment, yet you continued to do so. You can’t have it both ways.

If you are unhappy with no one agreeing with you, ask a mod to close the thread.

Post # 55
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@Bella88: From what I made out of your post directed at me. No, I never stopped talking to my Fiance, because that is not a way to solve anything. 

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@Eight6Eleven: And I completely agree. 

Post # 57
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395 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

 

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@MsNarwhal: I completely gave up even trying to comprehend what was going on. 

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@Bella88: If I’m reading this correctly, your Fiance “broke your heart” just by saying that he didn’t want to talk to you? And you feel like you’re putting forth all of the effort and he’s not giving you anything back?

And basically, you want some sympathy. (Probably not any advice, seeing as how you didn’t provide enough information about your situation to make advice feasible.)

You should  be getting out of your relationship whatever you put into it, and if you’re not and you’re unhappy, maybe you should consider backing off a little, and giving one another some space, until it’s possible for you to not be LDR anymore. 

 

Post # 58
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3770 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

Long distance is so hard. When all you have is talk and email,open communication is so important. Maybe you could give us some more backround information about what he has done the broke your heart so we could give you more specific advice:)

Post # 60
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

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@Bella88: Also…

Pot, meet kettle. 

i say my opinions yes…and there isnt a rule that says; only say what other people want to hear

 

has nothing to do with respect,,,please dont act like you know me and try to incoporate respect into it ” 

Look familair? 

Also, can you please not excessively space your posts? No one else here types like this, and it is difficult to read/take you seriously when you throw extra spaces/letters onto words. For example: whyyyyyy???????????, reallllyyyyyyyyyy

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