(Closed) im so lonely…so hurt..

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 77
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1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

hope things work out for you hun, Long distance is hard, but I hope it gets easie for you.. 🙁

Post # 78
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1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

From her screen name “Bella88” I’d think she was bron in 1988, making her 23.

Post # 82
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21 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2012

lol thats very cute. Definately ring him and talk to him. But none of the “you did this” or “you did that”. He may be worried that you guys may have an arguement and he is avoiding that. Just ring him like nothing happend and ask how he is and tell him you love him. When you guys are ready you can talk about it =)

Post # 84
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2582 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Bella – I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess that communication is probably a big part of whats stressing you out.  It is very difficult to get what you’re trying to say in these posts – and as you can see, that caused some friction here with people who were just trying to help you. Perhaps similar communication breakdowns are happening with your FI? 

Im a speech pathologist and often work with people who have a hard time getting their thoughts out in an organized way (meaning things make total sense in your head, but when you speak or write them, people aren’t getting it, and this causes a ton of frustration). If any of what Im saying is ringing true for you, please feel free to PM me – I have a few handouts I can send you with strategies for organizing your thoughts and preventing communication breakdowns.

Best of luck!

Post # 86
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

At the request of the OP I’m going to close this thread. I’d also like to remind you all of our policies about personal attacks when posting.

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