(Closed) Im so pissed!!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5073 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

She’s an idiot.  Ignore her.  Her actions should not affect how you feel about your ring.

Some people are just stupid.  There’s no way to fix it.  

Post # 4
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9947 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@LilMsMicro:   Ok, seriously.  I don’t mean to be harsh, but you’re being just a tad little bit ridiculous over something so trivial, don’t you think?  You can’t let what other people do affect you!  Stop it already.

Post # 5
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1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I cannot BELIEVE this happened. Have you confronted her about it? Don’t let her walk all over you like that, or you’re never going to feel better. Anonymous venting can only help so much.

Post # 6
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367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Wow, how immature of her, I’d be pissed too!

Agree with GroovyHippieChickthere isn’t anything you can do to fix it so you just have to let it go. Or you can totally confront her about it and ask why she chose the same setting. But she’ll probably just say she liked it too or something else less helpful.

It sounds like her relationship is pretty crummy so she’s trying to fill the void with materialistic comforts (as shown through comments like ‘my Fiance wouldn’t let me walk around with 1 ct’ and ‘mine is bigger!’ what is she, 5??), so be reassured that your ring isn’t a filler for a void in your own relationship. Use that as your comforting fact when she’s acting like a child.

Post # 8
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46642 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

We all get to make choices about whether we let other people push our buttons or not.

I wouldn’t consider her much of a “friend”.

Post # 10
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9947 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@LilMsMicro:   I think you should be the bigger person and ignore her.  It seems obvious they didn’t research moissy at all, they just took your suggestion, liked your ring style and ran with it. 

She is tacky and rude.  So why are you letting her affect you?  You can show class  by ignoring her.

Post # 11
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1513 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

OK, the whole “mine is bigger” thing is obnoxious, but I really really can’t imagine getting so upset over something like this. I am with @Sunfire.

Post # 12
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241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow. That’s pretty Rude.  I could forgive it if he just bought her a larger ring on his own accord, but to brag that hers is bigger is pretty mean, especially when you helped her out. 

Post # 13
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707 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Seriously? I’m honestly shocked at how rude some people are. Maybe you should remind her that before you told her about Moissanite she had no ring. Or next time someone says “oh they match” and she says “no mine is bigger,” you can say “But I had mine first” 🙂 Just kidding…sort of. 

Just be proud of the beautiful ring you have. And you know what they say, “imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.” You said she was a friend, but she doesn’t sound like a very good one. I’d ignore her!

Post # 14
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1830 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Engagement rings are not a pissing contest. Be happy with what you have (ring, man, etc.) and realize that your friend probably isn’t such a great friend, afterall.

Post # 15
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9548 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Don’t let her stress you out. I don’t think having the same setting is a big deal. Most people have pretty similar settings, if you get right down to it. It is totally rude that she is making comments about size, but bigger isn’t always better! I wouldn’t want a 1.5 carat ring! Try to ignore her and not let it bother you. If it gets more than you can handle you could always make some comment that you wouldn’t want anything bigger because you would be afraid it would look gaudy.

Post # 16
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55 posts
Worker bee

wow, how tactless of her D: I would be so pissed!!

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