(Closed) I'm so sad!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Oh nooooooooo!  That is terrible!!  I wouldn’t even know where to start.  Can you demand you both see a marriage counselor together?  Having a 3rd party lead you both through some discussions – what this means for your marriage, for the baby, etc – could help.  It gives you a neutral referee, a place to air your feelings (instead of just 24/7 at home) and usually, some concrete exercises or steps to take (which can help you feel more in control after a tailspin like this).  So sorry this happened to you 🙁

Post # 4
Member
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Oh my. I personally could never stay with someone who cheated on me. I would never be able to regain that trust again, especially if I found out from a positive STD test. I wonder if he would have ever come clean about it had you not contracted the disease. 

Im so sorry you’re dealing with this, especially with a baby on the way. 

Post # 7
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1994 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@JulyBride25:  wow this is so tragic! I am so sorry this effected your health AND emotions… you are married tho and you have a family now. you have to think about the longevity of this whole situation.

I think you REALLY need to have an honest conversation with him on the motives and EVERYTHING involved in his actions. I don’t think you can reasonably move forward without laying everything completely out on the table.

Honesty is the key to trust… I would be strong and demand answers and try to rebuild.

Post # 8
Member
338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

It just sucks that it took an STD for you to find out! How you both resolve this depends on his willingness to move forward and if he is even sorry! I really hope you don’t stress too much over this issue as the health of your baby is so important!!

Post # 9
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4314 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh my god.  I really have no words, I am so so so terribly sorry 🙁  Please take care of yourself & your baby.

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