- 7 years ago
I just found out that one of my oldest and best friends cannot come to my wedding! 🙁
i am having a destination wedding in Jamaica in April. and she is Jewish and just found out that Passover is the week of my wedding. while i am not religious at all, i know she is and i totally understand.
i am just super sad because i have thought for MONTHS that she was one of the “definite” people who was coming AND she was supposed to officiate the ceremony in French! (bilingual ceremony because FI’s family is French), while the Jamaican officiant does half in English…..i mean i can hire an interpreter or whatever i need, but when i first got engaged i asked her to officiate as a way for her to be part of our wedding. then it turned out we NEEDED someone French! so it was perfect.
anyway, so i guess i have to accept it and i told her i totally understand, doesn’t it stop me from being totally bummed right now….