(Closed) I'm so upset… :(

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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1572 posts
Bumble bee

🙁 *hug*

I got pregnant in my first month trying, and I’m really scared to tell some people who have been trying a long time. It’s just unfair all around, I wish everyone was able to get pregnant easily if they want to and not be able to if they don’t want to! 

Post # 4
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Ugh. I’m so sorry! That sucks. It probably doesn’t help to hear it, but I’m sure she struggled with how to bring it up. I am on my 4th month trying, and it seems like everyone in my life is pregnant. You’re not alone!

Post # 5
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2263 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m sorry. That really sucks. I feel this way as well, some of my friends are not pregnant after a few years. To be honest I know it’ll suck equally for me to tell them when we’re expecting if that happens before them. 🙁 At least your friend was kind enough to tell you herself, imagine how much worse it would have been for her to do the easy thing and let you find out via a third party. 🙁 yikes. 

Love and baby dust! Hang in there! 

Post # 6
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822 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@misty_bear:  I’m sorry.  Big hugs because I know what it feels like.

At least she was open and honest with you.  Fingers crossed for you this month, and  you have the support of every one on here 🙂

Post # 7
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663 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@misty_bear:  *HUGS* Try not to let it get to you. My DH and I just started TTC (2 cycles in) and now couples all around us are popping up *accidently* expecting so I feel your pain. 

Post # 8
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453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m sorry it’s getting you down.  Have you just been trying since your wedding date?  If so, that was less than 3 months ago.  Pretty much everyone in this thread so far has only been trying for a short time (myself included) and it’s perfectly normal to not get pregnant instantly! 🙂

Post # 10
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6701 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Baby boy 12/2015

I am also in school. We are on the opposite avoiding a pregnancy, but sometimes I wonder if it’s worth it because I don’t know if I am fertile or not. You should try charting.

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