Post # 1
I grew up on the East Coast and 2 of my BMs are coming from out east to my Midwest wedding in Sept. Two of my other BMs are here in the midwest. My FI’s family is here, but my family is all back out east. I would love to have a shower or brunch with all of my friends/family but it just isn’t possible. It seems silly to have a shower with 2 of my friends and all the women from his family. Anyone been in this situation and can shed some light on what your experience was?
Post # 3
Can you have a shower when they come for the wedding?
Post # 4
Could be a great way to bond with some of the new important women in your life. You could think of it as a ‘bonding with the new ladies’ event rather than the shower you were picturing….it’s all how you frame it.
Post # 5
I say have the shower! get to know them and let them “shower” you! I would feel shy around people I don’t know but Hey if they are bringing me gifts and interested in coming and my wedding I would be all for it! Plus I love a party. Great reason to have one!