- 10 years ago
I’m sure probably just I’m reading into this, but I have to get this out of my head…
MY SO and I were making conversation at a b-ball game last weekend and somehow (I forget exactly how), something was said that made me wonder….
I think we were talking about general house stuff….
SO: “Is that where your passport is?”
Me: “No, I keep it in my box with all of our bills.”
SO: “Yeah, you won’t want to lose that…”
Me: “I won’t lose it. We need to get YOU a passport finally so you have one too.”
SO: (Awkwardly giggling/smiling) “Yeah…”
Now, as I’m writing this I am thinking… This is silly. He probably was just chatting, but the reason I keep thinking about it is because he isn’t the most organized or detail-oriented type of guy, and I am surprised that he would even think to wonder where my passport is. He also had a weird tone when he said it. It felt really random. I was surprised by his reaction to my suggesting he get one too, because I felt like maybe I caught him off guard and he wasn’t sure what to answer. We’ve talked before about him getting one (but not for awhile) so his reaction was different than just.. “Yeah I know I need to do that…”
I’m sure I’m over-analyzing, but I just had to get this off my chest.
Part of me is secretly hoping maybe he will try to plan something for us that is a surprise because I am all for eloping. Okay, now I need to get back to reality 🙂 But a girl can dream right? 🙂
I should also mention that my SO and I have talked about getting married by Summer,2013, but he knows I want it to be just the two of us. We also have a small vacation planned for March of this year, so I’d be amazed if he had the money for something bigger, but I keep telling myself… “you never know….”