- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
i’m assuming Father-In-Law = father-in-law:p
anyway. i can’t stand the sight of my Father-In-Law. it’s that bad. he lives down in the islands and is a digusting sexist cheap pig who just pops in our lives every now and then to crash at our house and use my husband. and not only does he crash at our house, he overwelcomes his stay and buys all kinds of shit (literally…crap from flea markets) and thinks he can just store it in our house until he finds a way to ship it back to the islands where he can sell everything. he spends 24-7 on the internet trying to meet up with young latin or black girls from the islands (mostly 3rd world countries) and i’m convinced he lies to them and acts like he is some big rich guy and they chat with him. he just views women as objects and thinks he knows everything and he’s just an ignorant moron lol
my poor husband is embarrassed of him but at the same time, will not step up to him and just puts up with his crap whenever he comes here. he’ll give us like a 1-2 day notice of when he is coming and the first 2 nights he’s all polite and will cook dinner and then he starts acting like he can do whatever he wants and there’s never a definite answer of when he’s leaving. it’s bullshit. we have 2 bedrooms and 1 bathroom and i’m sorry but after a week, i start getting really annoyed and want him out!
i know he has some money (his parents were very wealthy and the grandfather just died recently and there’s a trust fund from that) but he’ll act broke to my husband and my husband will feel bad and let him stay with us but i don’t buy it for one second. i think he just wants to use us for a free place to stay so he can go spend his money on other shit and do what he wants and he doesn’t even care to spend any quality time with his son. they have such a weird distant relationship, it’s so alien to me. i have zero respect for this man and i really do bite my tongue as much as i can because i don’t want to make my husband feel bad, but we’ve gotten into it a few times and i basically told him what i think and said his dad is a loser and i’m sick of him coming here and disrupting our lives, he has NOTHING positive to offer.
just felt like venting. what are we supposed to do? just tell him he can’t stay here any more?