(Closed) I'm thinking of objecting at the wedding.

posted 6 months ago in Ceremony
Post # 61
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Bumble bee

Tbh I’ve always kind of wanted this to happen at weddings I’ve been to because I think it would make them a lot more interesting! There’s always this suspense when they ask if there are any objections, so it wouldn’t ruin it for me at all as a guest.

However, I have a feeling it would not go down too well with the bride and groom and it’s not fair to ruin their big day because you feel like it should be you she’s marrying. If you feel this strongly you would have said something by now, I suspect if this is a genuine post then this is more about you being petty and jealous and wanting to ruin things for them than you actually caring about her. 

Post # 62
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449 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

lol yea ok, I still don’t believe it

Post # 63
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

norapunch :  I couldn’t agree more

Post # 64
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I mean c’mon even if this worked out EXACTLY how you want it to, OP, do you really want to be with someone who would leave someone at the altar like that?  Takes a certain level of heartlessness to do that, don’t you think? 

Post # 65
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Busy bee

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Post # 66
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

MsJ2018 :  ok but you’ve already said it. You are not the only one that thinks this. The bee is very good at sniffing out these types of posts. People aren’t being naive by responding they are just being clever in their responses rather than ringing the t-bell

Post # 68
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6663 posts
Bee Keeper

weddingno :  Be prepared that she is unlikely to jump into your arms and announce she is leaving her fiance and canceling her wedding. 

Post # 69
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1017 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

weddingno :  Thank God you won’t be ruining her day. But yeah, it probably won’t turn out how you want. You don’t deserve her to leave her fiance

Post # 70
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

weddingno :  It really sounds like you’re suffering from “nice guy” syndrome in your update. Because honestly, if you actually loved her, you’d accept your current position and be happy for her. 

Sure, meet her at Starbucks and tell her you’ve always loved her. But you better be 100% prepared for her to not reciprocate your feelings and you sure as hell better graciously accept and understand that. Because if you can’t, you do not actually love her. You just covet her.

Post # 71
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886 posts
Busy bee

Please please PUHLEASE post an update after the coffee conversation. 

Post # 72
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930 posts
Busy bee

Yes, please update. curious of the outcome. 

 

P.S. please don’t attned her wedding. It’s only goinng to crush you and there really is no point in being there. Not to sound rude, but it’d be in YOUR best interest if you didnt attend.

Post # 73
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Worker bee

Ah, yes, marriage is really a lot like musical chairs, you know.

Lordy, too much drama for an old-timer like me. You kids have fun!

Post # 74
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Bumble bee

“and never told…”

“Made an appointment”

“It’s my turn.”

 

It doesn’t work like that. For some perfect clarity here: SHE PICKS. You don’t get a “turn” at someone just because you can’t sleep at night.

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