(Closed) I’m tired of the wedding, I can’t wait ’til it’s over!

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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616 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

greenleafmountain:

You are so funny. I am so totally where you are right now. WHO CARES!?!?!?

Post # 33
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839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

our wedding is FINALLY 3 days away – and I’ve been “over it” for MONTHS!!!!!! honestly the week or 2 before you will TOTALLY be excited…but until then, yes I know how you feel. 

Post # 34
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@VirginiaMarie: UGH. u read my mind. i have been over wedding planning since at least a few months ago, and we’re only having a 13 month engagement!… im sick of looking at my “wedding room” with stuff that is half done, or not even started. clearing out my blackberry of all the vendor chain emails… and answering questions left and right about all things our wedding.

i love my Fiance to death and i can’t wait to marry him and have our day, but i CANNOT wait even more to have our lives back to normal and our bank accounts flowing with our paychecks normally again.

Post # 35
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191 posts
Blushing bee

Totally over it….we’re 5 weeks out (been engaged since 3/09), and I’m sick of all of the drama and BS that has been getting more frequent over the past few weeks. Only 34 more days of the BS!!!!!!!!!!!

Post # 36
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170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m over it too. My engagement has been long distance and really stressful emotionally b/c of that and just not fun. I’m sick of planning. 8 months down and 4 to go and I’m just tired of wedding crap. OVER IT. Here’s what I do: When something annoys me…I just drop it. I figure if I find it annoying or overwhelming or bothersom then it just isn’t all that important and I just skip it or pick any random thing and move on to stuff I do care about

Post # 37
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952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Hi Ladies-

I can so relate, and our engagement was only 4 months, a record for a Catholic wedding.  I don’t know how people do it for a year or more.

Post # 38
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616 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

To everyone reading this post: our advice is don’t have a long engagement unless you’re really patient lol

Post # 39
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878 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We will have a 13 month engagement.  I am ready to get married now.

Post # 40
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264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Getting married in 12 days. I’m so effing OVER it!

Post # 41
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4590 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I felt the same exact way. I was in a really shitty mood all day leading up to my wedding (it rained so i couldn’t get the pics I wanted, and I didn’t feel that great in the morning) but as soon as the ceremony was over, I felt awesome and the reception was amazing. I know it sucks right now, but just think in 2 months it will all be over. Just strictly structure what days you will do wedding stuff, and don’t think about it other than that and before you know it it will all be over.

My engagement was 2 years long, so i know exactly what you are talking about…

Post # 42
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344 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yup. Over it too! 8 month engagement; one month ’til wedding. Was having fun until a few days ago. Now I’m ready for it to be ovvveerrrr.

Post # 43
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343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

OVER IT. I had a 19 month engagement. I was doing great until about 14 months into it. For the past few weeks, the wedding is all anyone talks to me about. Every day someone comes up to me at work and asks if I’m excited. It’s hard to keep my words matched with my affect these days! I catch myself telling someone that I’m so excited but I have zero emotion showing on my face. I have to slap on a smile or they think I’m getting cold feet. I just want to be married and go on my honeymoon…with no cell phone, as someone else mentioned above.

Post # 44
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m a wuss.  I’ve been “over it” and we’ll only be engaged six months.  I keep saying — I don’t know how people do it when they are engaged for a year or more.  You are some tough cookies!!

Post # 45
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I’m only 5 months into the planning and still have 9 months left to go on the planning and i’m ready for it to be over with.

Post # 46
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think I was over it before it began!  Yet, it obsesses us so….

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