(Closed) I'm too indecisive

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
1695 posts
Bumble bee

The dress on the right looks perfect on you!

Post # 3
6580 posts
Bee Keeper

I don’t see any “chub chub” here at all.  You’re rocking both dresses!  I love the one on the left the most.

Post # 4
2285 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

You made the right choice. The dress on the right doesn’t look bad on you, but the one you chose looks better. Why hide your curves in an a-line?

The only thing I’d suggest is maybe raising the skirt of the first dress a couple of inches so it flares out higher up – about where your thumbnail is when your hand is down by your sides in the photo. I think that’s how it’s supposed to look according to the model photos, but the dress has been made for someone like 6 foot tall for some reason.

You could also poof out the skirt more to show off the flowiness more.

P.S. What chub-chub?

Post # 5
106 posts
Blushing bee

I really love the dress on the left! (Also missing the chub-chub as well, you’re bod is flawless -_-)

Post # 6
8514 posts
Bumble Beekeeper


Post # 7
1903 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m confused – did you buy the one on the right or the left?

Post # 8
1157 posts
Bumble bee

You are rocking that left dress! 

Post # 10
61 posts
Worker bee

I AM SO SICK OF PEOPLE PRESSURING WOMEN TO LOSE WEIGHT BEFORE A WEDDING!!!! You are thin and gorgeous don’t let anyone tell you you need to lose a pound. Why does every woman try to lose 20 pounds before a wedding I don’t get it? They should want to be healthy every day not just for a wedding day. 

Dress wise I think you can do better. These are both meh. 

Post # 12
5641 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

I like he dress on the left more.

Post # 13
2325 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

View original reply
monsterly:  I love the one on the left. I too have an hourglass and there’s just no point hiding it! My curves like to be caressed thank you very much. 

Erm, chub chub not so much…

Post # 14
26 posts
  • Wedding: June 2017

I really like the mermaid one. Go with the one that makes you feel better. Have people take a bunch of pictures of you in it. Even when you are not looking or posing. How you look in the mirror is different than in pictures. That might help decide.

Post # 15
4423 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I think u look gorgeous in both. Your body is slammin! U don’t need to lose weight what-so-ever, but if it makes u feel more comfortable then def do what u want (I’m in a similar boat, I’m the highest weight I’ve ever been and although people on the bee don’t notice it I don’t feel the best at my current weight.)

i digress, u need to get whatever dress u love. It sounds like u really love the right one. Go for it! Either way u’ll be a beautiful bride… 😄. Let us know what u choose…

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