Post # 1
My fiance and I are getting married September 2019. This is the second marriage for the both of us so we didn’t want it huge. Both of our first marriages were in city hall, but we want our wedding to be a bit more of a celebration. We have already secured a reasonable priced venue and have taken care of a lot of the major details. I have a dress already and he has an idea of his tuxedo.
My concern is that I am too wrapped up in this. Believe me I am more interested in being his wife and building on our already strong and loving relationship than the acutal wedding. However, I find myself thinking about it a lot. Did anyone out there experience this? Looking for ways to be a more relaxed bride.
Post # 2
- Wedding: September 2019 - City, State
I am getting married in Sept also. I think about the wedding as we are planning here and there. But what gets me excited is changing my name, being called Mrs.Smith. Seeing him with his ring on. Little things like that give me goose bumps. I know the feeling bee and it’s exciting. Congrats to you and goodluck on your planning.
Post # 3
Do you get excited for fun vacations? Excited for parties? Excited for friends having babies?
Excitement is normal, healthy human emotion. This is a party to celebrate one of the more major decisions of the rest of your life.
I’m a second time bride as well (courthouse for first too!) and really looking forward to the big party this time around. Means more because I didn’t do it the first time.
That said… we just have to remember that it’s only one day. And when it’s done it is just the beginning.
Post # 4
Thanks for the perspective. I am trying to remember that but have fun as well 🙂
Post # 5
Thanks and congrats to you two as well. I am really looking forward to being my FH’s wife too 🙂
Post # 6
- Wedding: August 2018 - Location
Yup and I started off not even caring about having a wedding!
I tend to obsess about everything though haha like vacations, moving into a new place, exciting times at work…whatever’s next up as a big event in my life!