I'm Worried About My Wedding Theme…

posted 3 years ago in Themes
  • poll: Is it fine to have a cozy/comfy/warmth theme as late as April 1st?
    Yes : (56 votes)
    69 %
    No : (4 votes)
    5 %
    I wouldn't, but it's your wedding. : (21 votes)
    26 %
  • Post # 16
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    I think I prefer the dress too.  And I actually like the Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses a lot, but I just find the colour Christmasy….

    Post # 18
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    4258 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    I don’t think it is ugly.  But I think the other is an easier plaid for people to wear.  

    Post # 19
    Member
    858 posts
    Busy bee

    pfrau :  it doesn’t quite sound like spring, but I’m not from Canada. Either way I really like the sounds of it!! I’d love to be invited to a wedding like that. I wanna see the plaid bm dresses!

    Post # 20
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    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2026

    Do what you like and don’t care about what others think or say. In the end, everyone is going to do the same thing: eat good food, dance, and celebrate. Nobody is really going to talk about your dress or care what you are wearing unless it’s completely scandalous like those nearly naked wedding dresses. 

    The person who is going to care the most is YOU, because you’ll be looking at your pictures a lot more than anyone else is. And frankly, if they look at photos, their eyes are going to drift to themselves first: “I don’t care what the bride is wearing, but I think I look fabulous.”

    Post # 21
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    112 posts
    Blushing bee

    I think that’s fine. It would say it’d be out of place in, say, the middle of summer in an area with very hot weather, but in a cooler climate the cozy theme seems fine to me. If I was a guest at your wedding, I wouldn’t  think it out of place. 🙂

    Post # 22
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    10010 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    It wouldn’t work for me in April in Texas cause it’s hot as hell but if you are in a cooler climate then why not?

    Post # 23
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    100 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    I’m on the East Coast and we’re supposed to get over a foot of snow Friday… April 1. So you are totally fine!

    Honestly even if that wasn’t the case I would say do what you love and be happy. That wedding dress and the long sleeve plaid are absolutely adorable!

    Post # 25
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    49 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    Go for it! It’s your wedding! 

    Post # 26
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    52 posts
    Worker bee

    I am from the Toronto area as well, and love the look and feel of your wedding, and I am just throwing this out there…. can you move the wedding to February? I’m not sure what family and busy things made it push to April 1st… but is it an option to make it closer? I ask because I think it would look amazing with some out door snow pictures and if there is an option of pictures, or reception infront of a big fireplace, then that would be amazing! Today it was warm out (light jacket in shade and hot in the sun) and everything outside is brown….

    Post # 27
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    368 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: City, State

    I love your choice of dresses! I’ve never seen a wedding themed like that before, but I love it!

    I am in the Southern hemisphere, but even here, that far into Spring is still cold. I think it’d be fine, and quite lovely. Also, take one of the no votes off your poll, I accidentally voted for the wrong option!

    Post # 28
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    379 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    Were in Canada! We get snow until May some years!

    Don’t sweat it. It’s March 30th today and I’m still using my winter jacket outside 😊

    Post # 29
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    1512 posts
    Bumble bee

    I LOVE that dress!

    Post # 30
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    4241 posts
    Honey bee

    What’s your family tartan? There may be a dress tartan for that  name, which are typically prettier and more simple. Many family names often also have several different tartans.

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