- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
Ever since my Fiance and I got enaged my mother hasn’t been very supportive. Her and my father had tried pushing us into marriage before but that was only because they were worried about what other people would think about us living together.
Flash foward to now and she and I barely talk. She comes to see me sometimes at work or I go to visit her sometimes (though lately not as much as I would like) but talking about wedding stuff is difficult. The first time I went to try on dresses I went with her. After that I pretty much went on my own or whoever was with me at the time. When I found “the dress” I found it by myself. Now I want to go back and purchase it.
Should I a) wait until my mom can go with me to purchase since she hasn’t seen it even though she might try to change my mind and she works 40 hrs plus school now. (P.S. She was really upset I didnt’ tell her right away we were engaged only b/c I knew she wouldn’t be very happy for me. And she doesn’t like his Mother-In-Law very much because his Mother-In-Law has been supportive of us.)
or b) go with whoever is available tonight to buy it.
I’ve been waiting for around a month now since I found it…