(Closed) I'm worried I'm going to ruin the proposal!

posted 4 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
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Helper bee

That’s a long time! I reckon if you keep making comments, it might never feel like the right time as it may come across as a response to you mentioning it. If you know it’s definitely going to happen, give her time to do it the way she feels she needs to! Enjoy the excitement of the mystery and keep it in a bit to give her time to be the one to bring it up first for a change. So exciting!

Post # 3
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Newbee

Yup you should definitely stop mentioning it. You have tried the excited thing and it’s not really getting you anywhere. She will obviously know by now that you are super excited so I would just stop bringing it up. Take the preasure off of her a bit and let her do it when she is comfortable and feels like she has had the time to “get it right.”

 I’m also waiting. I don’t think he has the ring yet but we went shopping back in January so he knows what he is looking for, just has to order it. I try not to bug him too much about it as I know that won’t make him speed up at all. He will get around to it in his own time. Until then I will continue to spend copious amounts of time on the Bee living vicariously.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

Congrats! That’s a beautiful ring! 

I am in the same boat you were, my bf has the ring and I just need to shut up and let him do his thing but i like to talk! I am going to be like you and try not to say anything. Hopefully I won’t get  a stress rash though!

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