- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2016
So I asked an old college friend to be a bridesmaid, we used to be very close, and although we drifted apart in recent years (just because life and being busy) I thought asking her to be a bridesmaid would help bring us closer together again. She said yes and everything was lovely for a couple of weeks.
It’s now only a few months to the wedding, and I don’t really feel like she’s been excited for the wedding at all.
I’ve only seen her twice in the last year, and she even bailed on half of the hen-do. When I ask her questions or advice about the wedding, she doesn’t reply, and she takes days (sometimes weeks) to respond to things that are pretty simple, even when I know she’s seen the message and read it. I know that my wedding shouldn’t be the centre of everyone else’s life, but she doesn’t even reply when I message her about her own life, and when I’m trying to catch up with her about her own stuff.
I’m just confused. I feel like she doesn’t want to be a bridesmaid, and I don’t want to force her into being one, if that’s the case.
I’m not sure what to do?