(Closed) Impatience!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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75 posts
Worker bee

I agree 100%. Your mistake was the order. Man buys ring,mans asks girl. Girl starts wedding planning,shopping for dresses etc. I’m sure you’re kinda realizing that now. Hope I’m not offending. Did you both set the date or are you calling all the shots?From my experience it has to be all the GUY’S idea. If you start calling the shots most men seem to dig their heals in so to speak and the process slowly comes to a road block usually ending up with the girl anticipating and gettting fustrated. I wouldn’t go dress shopping or make any further plans unless I had the real deal on my finger! I’m also a waiting bee and I feel your pain!

Post # 4
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118 posts
Blushing bee

Try hitting him on the head to knock some sense into him so he gets the dam ring!  I did that to my Boyfriend or Best Friend last night when he made a ball busting comment.  Dam they have no idea do they?

Post # 5
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2077 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If you’re planning on a wedding in December, you don’t have a choice but to start shopping around soon!  The only suggestion I would have is to talk to your boyfriend to tell him how uncomfortable you feel shopping for wedding related items without a ring.  Talking about everything with my man usually helps clear my mind and I also get to see his point of view.  I’m not sure I could start putting deposits down on anything (venue, dress, anything) until I had the solid commitment of a ring on my finger.  Comminicate with him.  Maybe you could come to some sort of compromise where he sends you a “filler” ring for now before he proposes…or something…haha  That seemed a lot less silly in my head!

Best of luck to you.  Being a Lady in Waiting is stressful, especially if the man wants to keep the proposal a secret, but having to plan a wedding without the ring would make me a little uneasy.

Post # 7
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603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

What is an OH?

Post # 9
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Ooooh I so feel you on this one! We’ve planned practically our whole wedding and the ring came in the mail today. I’m still waiting for a proposal. But our engagement is only 6 months from the 7th! Yikes! Mr. KM got the ring this morning… so soon.

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