(Closed) Impatiently waiting

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
2111 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I think most of us have been There before! Its so hard to be patient! For me, its even harder now that I know that the ring is in the house. I was on vacation with my mom this past week, and any guy I saw, i wanted them to look and know I was taken, and I want him to want everyone to know I’m taken. I know I am taken and I would never act as if I wasn’t taken, but i really want everyone else to know it. The waiting is hard. Try to keep busy, lean on all of us here for support. Hopefully your waiting will end soon!

Post # 3
361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Dreaming42:  I know exactly how you feel about others close to you getting engaged. My BFF got engaged a few months ago and has been dating her Fiance for much less time than me and my SO. 

I keep alternating between wanting to break down and have a cry fit and wanting to cuss my Boyfriend or Best Friend out for making me wait. I am not opposed to proposing to him if it came down to it but I want to experience the traditional proposal as a girl! My bday is next week and I can’t help but feel down already bc I just know he’s not going to propose this year. I don’t want to feel this way but I do. It sucks

Post # 4
584 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

GIRLLL, can I get an AMEN? haha. I feel exactly the same way. Being patient sucks, especially because I know in our situation the only thing we’re waiting for is money for the ring. GAH.

Post # 6
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2016 - Equestrian Estate

Dreaming42:  Maybe he is thinking about proposing but he wants to throw you off?? And either way you also have to think about you, keep yourslef happy!! Have you read Mr. Bees approach to getting your guy to propose?? Its great!


Ive been with my SO for over 6 years now… still waiting but I do know now that it’ll happen in the next month (hopefully), so that helps me, but before I knew that being on the waiting boards helped me get through. And finding something else to focus on is so important.

The fact that you two are happy and in love is all that matters, its not a race, just b/c other ppl are getting married sooner doesnt mean that they are more in love 😉 

Post # 8
3 posts

I feel the same way you feel! You see people all the time that have been together less time than you and you wonder “What are they doing that I’m not Doing?” So frustrating!!! also wondering why you’re always a step ahead! I feel you!!!

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