- 10 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
So I have written on a few posts before about us – but a little background information:
We have been together for 6 years living together for 4 and we have started planning our August 21 2010 wedding because we wanted to get married next year, venues were getting booked up but he didn’t want that to affect his proposal! The ring has been pick out for two years or so but it hasn’t been until this year that I have been really excited because I knew he couldn’t afford it before (we share finances)!
My best friend and will be Maid/Matron of Honor is also engaged and getting married in July 2010 and I am her MOH! She lives in British Columbia and I live in Ontario so we only see each other a few times a year – she is making a trip down in a few weeks to do some planning (her wedding is in Ontario) and go dress shopping! We really want to go dress shopping together and it would be amazing that she could be with me for that – if I don’t do it now than I would have to do it without her. However, I will not go dress shopping without being “officially” engaged – ppl think its weird because I am doing everything else but this is where I draw the line! I want to invite my mom and his mom along and I just don’t feel comfortable without being “officially” engaged!
So last night we were talking about making the trip down for my best friends engagement party (3 days before dress shopping) and my FH says “Well how are our mom’s going to get down there (for dress shopping)?” I told him that I havn’t planned this because I didn’t know if it was happening! Then he started back tracking and saying that he thought I would try on dresses anyway (I have been very clear that I will NOT)
I think this was a slip up because then I started smiling and giggling and he kept telling me to stop and I am ruining everything and so I did (I really don’t want to ruin this) But then later he said he was just trying to plan just in case but I don’t know!!!! If he is doing it before that means it will be this weekend (EEK) or next!!!!!!
I am sooooo excited and I literally cannot hide it!!!!!!! But I don’t want to be setting myself up for a major disappointment – what do you guys think??????