(Closed) In a rut and BF frustrated. Sigh.

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

I don’t have any, but my guy has said this before and it pissed.me.off. If I was one of those women, I’d be riding his ass and engaged by now!LOL

anyway, maybe just spend more time with him. He probably just sees all the wedding things and that’s what conclusion he’s come to. I took a break from the bee as well because it has been boring until I’m engaged. I’m mostly on Hellobee, talking about baby stuff.

 

Good luck, hope he realizes what you REALLY want.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

URG, I’ve been accused of that. I didn’t take it very well. I was doing an internship, working, and taking 18 hours at school (It really does take the life out of you) I listed out an entire slew of reasons why I want to marry HIM and not just THAT GUY. Then I told him he needed to think about IF he even wanted to marry me becauseI feel I’m just that girlfriend. One of the only times I’ve ever been angry with him. 

Congrats on having your DIS almost done, I am personally dreading that because its soo not my style but I want my Ph.D soo badly! 🙁 

Really, if you want to get a little angry at him and blow up on him a little bit (especially if you rarely ever do that) this is the time when I’d encourage it because of how stressed you are, it helps to take it away and gives him a more complete picture as to what’s going on in your head instead of if you decide to rational it for him. Being emotional while a lot of the time doesn’t help, in this instance it really might! 

<3 

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