(Closed) In a toss up for BM’s…long

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Is there a reason you can’t just stop at 3?

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ok, so I may be biased, because I’ve said no to being a bridesmaid when I’ve been in a couple relationships like the ones you’ve described.  I’m just not into doing it for someone I’m not SUPER close with, so my idea of who a bridesmaid should be might be different than yours, and the true extent of your relationship with these girls may not be summed up easily in a couple sentences.

But, if I had to choose from your list, I’d probably pick the girl who’s the family friend, and then if you really wanted to be exactly equal, I’d go for the MRI girl. 

I’m not sure I’d ask someone I’d never hung out with alone before, and the volatile state of the other girl’s relationship with your groomsman freaks me out.  In breakups, somebody always gets to keep certain friends, and from your description it sounds like the boyfriend would go your way.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You have a few months before you need to decide. Maybe see if you grow closer to certain individuals in the next couple of months. 

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