(Closed) In Law Help!!!

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

I would think that it would be O.K. to have sex under your new inlaw’s roof.  I would hope that you would be decreet and be as quiet as possible.  You’re married now, and two weeks is forever for a newlywed!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

=o) Wouldn’t it be funny if you conceived while you were there? My fiance’s brother and sister-in-law… the past three times they came to my fiances house shortly there after they would announce they were having a baby. Whenever we asked them ‘hey wait a second— the timing seems like it would have occured right around the time you visited… with… us!!!’ They never admitted it! They would just smile! And honestly, my fiance never knew/heard/expected anything while they stayed at his house.

But I understand what you’re saying. You are married. They know you are too. I am sure they would ascertain that there is an inkling you two would already be… ya’know…  doin the deed!

Would you feel differently if you were staying at your parents house?

Post # 5
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Helper bee

As long as your quiet and behind closed doors then there is nothing wrong with it. And the fact that DH’s parents are devote should not matter.  My grandparents are and they had 7 kids. I would say that it is expected in a marriage. If it makes you uncomfortable just tell Darling Husband that it’s a we’ll see kinda thing. If you are totally freaked at the time by the possibility of getting caught or wierded out by it then you won’t be in the mood but it could be a turn on, clandestine and all.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Keeping it silent and in the middle of the night can be part of the fun – go for it!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I wouldn’t at my parents’ house- just because the walls are thin and all the bedrooms are right next to each other. But my in-laws the guest room is on the opposite side of the house- so I would.

I say be discrete and respectful, but you’re married- it’s ‘allowed’!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

if it was me, I would take a mini B&B trip during the 2 weeks or find another way to keep it quiet or drowned out…can I throw in a shower suggestion  😀

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

All I can say is DUDE 2 WEEKS?!?!  That’s forever, nothing wrong with a little something after they go to sleep, or the shower may not be a bad idea.  Or maybe when they are at work.  You are married, so I would think they would understand.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’d just like to speak up as somebody who was conceived at her grandma’s house over a holiday vacation. : )   Didn’t seem to hurt my parents’ relationship with my grandma one bit (they’d been married for a year at that point).

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

Um, you are married.  Married people have sex, even if they are religious.  Tell them you are working on that first grandchild for them. 🙂

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I am surprised he would even ask if it could happen. That in and of itself is shocking to me. Why wouldnt you both assume it would?  You are married.  There is nothing disrespectful about it.  Thinking you cant sends me down so many different roads!

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