(Closed) In laws: Am I being bitchy or overly sensitive because of past?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
384 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

You are not being overly sensitive at all! I would have been very hurt and angry too. That was compleltey out of order to change you wedding into something neither of you wanted. Not to mention the mess at the end. I think you’ve made all the effort required to try and get along with them If they don’t want to be friends that should be their problem. Don’t let his horrible sisters upset you too much. It seems there is absolutley nothing you can do to get them to act like decent human beings towards you. That was very dissapointing about your family’s reaction too. And the wedding night!

Perhaps you would like to renew your vows at somepoint and only have the people closest to you and do everything your way. If so, I would keep it small enough that you wouldn’t feel obliged to invite family members who you definitley wouldn’t want turning up. 

I hope things look up for you in the near future. You’re doing well to attend these luncheons once a month. Other than that I suggest you keep contact with toublesome in-laws to a minimum. It seems the family isn’t at all close anyway. Don’t let them ruin your new life together!

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