- 4 years ago
Sorry for any confusion in that I had to change my username due to privacy issues. However I had written about how my Fiance and myself left his family’s house early over the holidays due to drama and tension within his family – Fiance had almost not even visited due to long standing issues between him and his father (was abused as a child). Now that we are back home, he’s decided to limit phone contact with them due to their behavior during the visit.
We are moving near his parents sometime this year. His job will be taking us there. This was decided about 6 months ago. I used to be very excited about moving (after initially getting over missing my own family). Now, as his parents have shown more of their true colors, I am bummed to say the least. Being near my family where we are now, I absolutely love visiting my mom occassionally for a cup of tea and catching up. I don’t sense it will be like that when we move, with his family. It makes me even more sad to leave my family.
Fiance and agreed, if things get bad living near his family, he could always put in a relocation request.
I’m not sure how to feel about my feelings right now, if that makes sense.