(Closed) In laws not taking my wedding seriously

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

I’m so sorry, m jessica.  I remember your other post.  Man!  A few questions.  Is the brother getting married locally to them?  Does the brother and Fiance have less money (or so they think)?  Or is the brother a bit of a prodigal son, whereas your Fiance is more responsible and independent?  Is your family well of, compared to theirs?

I ask those questions because I think it’s either one of two things.

1.  There is more up (drama, crisis) with brother and his wedding.  (I’m still wondering what’s up with such a quick engagement and wedding.)  And therefore they are gravitating around him because they feel he’s typically needed them more.

2.  They are more supportive of Fiance brother’s wedding, because it is more like them.  You are getting married on your turf (which is fine).  And stated that it’s more formal than they are used to.  They might feel uncomfortable or out of place being there.  they might feel intimidated if they have to spend too much time with your family.

I don’t know if either of those are what’s going on.  Just thoughts.  Good luck.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

Oh no.  So sorry.  I hope the shower goes well.  And your moms hit it off.  Well at least you have your family to turn to.

Keep us posted.  Good luck.

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