(Closed) In Laws…HELP!! Any advice would be great!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

They don’t have to attend the rehearsal, my FIL’s won’t be. It is only a big deal if you make a big deal out of it.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

What does your Fiance say?

Honestly, to me, this is weird and hurtful.  I get that you can’t control other people, but these are events that usually both families attend.  

I’m sorry.  🙁

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

It’s not going to go away if you don’t say something to them. If you’re not comfortable doing it, I’d at least have your fi say something.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I can relate..and I’m the type to stay quiet..and that’s what I did (in previous relationships).  I didn’t end up saying anything..but it did bother me…and I somewhat grew to resent the people involved.  I think it should be coming from your Fi.maybe a talk from your Fi would make them realize what they are doing is harmful to your future relationships with them.  I hope things work out. 

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would ask my Fiance to speak with his parents. It’s not just the issue of the rehearsal.He  needs to be clarify if they are hosting the rehearsal dinner, if not why not, and if not, the two of you need to make alternate plans.

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