(Closed) In need of MOH advise (sorry it's long!)

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Am I being too sensitive/too much of a bridezilla?
    RRRAAAAWWWWWWWWRRRR!!!! Bridezilla strikes again! You're being a douche. : (3 votes)
    20 %
    Your day. Your photos. Your rules. 'Nuff said. : (11 votes)
    73 %
    Other - I'll tell you what to do! : (1 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
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    1159 posts
    Bumble bee

    Can you request she has her hair tied back in like a low loose bun? That would at least hide some of the teal.

    I don’t think you are in any position to ask her to not colour her hair.

    Post # 4
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    521 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Italiano's Humble

    Uh no…you spent over $3GRANNNND in flights, and she can’t hold off on a hair dye?? And she’s complaining left and right. Wth?

    I’d tell her no about the hair. what are your colors, anyway? As PP suggested, could she bun it? She’s talking an awful lot of sh!t to someone who more or less, did everything possible so her day wasn’t ruined. If you hadn’t done those things, I’d hate to hear her talk! It almost sounds like she was using you to her advantage, on all the crap she didn’t want to have to do. Just my $.02, however.

    Post # 5
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    1671 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @sharontobemarried:  +1 I like this idea a lot. She needs to figure out something but you are allowed to request something modest for your pictures.

    Post # 6
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    738 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @heatherlm84:  I would simply ask her to hold off on the hair dye. The fact that she told you before she did it seems like she’s trying to get you riled up – if she thought it was no big deal she would’ve just gone ahead and done it. Sometimes you have to walk to ‘zilla line in order to get what you want. 

    Post # 7
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    1478 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

    If she always has teal hair then it would be unreasonable but i dont think its at all unreasonable to ask her to hold off on the hair dye until after your wedding. You should be able to talk to your Maid/Matron of Honor about this. 

    Mine agreed not to cut her hair until after the wedding … she called me a bridezilla bitch and we laughed but a good friend she is and she understood I wouldnt want to see any of her latest DIY craziness in my photos.

    Post # 8
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    1478 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

    by the way what are your colours??

    @heatherlm84:  

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

    @heatherlm84:  OK so it wouldnt majorly clash so id bear this in mind but i still  think its a simple request

    Post # 11
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    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    You can get wash out hair colours? Maybe just buy her a colour (since shes being stingy) and ask her to chuck it through the night before so her hair isn’t a stand out for the photos. They way she doesn’t have to wait to colour her hair.

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