- Ms Sassy
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2012
i wish there was a suboard called “drama” bc that is my life right now. This has turned into an epic battle and i’m caught in the middle… the worse place to be.
Background: i dont have a dad. its just been me & my mom. She got into a bit of financial trouble years ago & had the house foreclosed on. When she finally got to sell the house she gave me $100k and i bought a townhouse in my name for the two of us. My husband has been living in th house with us for the past 7 years (we just got married a year ago). things have been great until last night…… que drama
I’m on the train home and i get a text from my mom saying that husband is mad bc the new 8 month english bulldog pupy that we just got keeps getting on the couch. my mom doesn’t have a lot of strength and has a hard time getting the dog down so she usually just lets the puppy stay there. Husband comes to pick me up at the station. I get in the car and before i even get to buckle the seatbelt he lays into me about how my mom lets the dog on the couch when hes trying to teach the dog not too and on and on. First i’m like whoa… dude i just got in the car. then i’m like.. umm NOT MY PROBLEM! i am not home enough -my days are 14 hours long, i could are if the dog is on the couch or not and when i said this huband got silent and just drove. then out of nowhere starts yelling about how i should care bc he cares. i came up with a solution: if she can’t get the dog off the couch then call/text him to come down from his office & put the dog in the crate. Appreantly that is just a stupid idea bc no one liked it??!!
Finally i get home, i come in the house and i said to my mom, yell at the dog to get off the couch when she gets on, if you cant get her then call him. Husband walks in the house at this point and goes upstairs mad. i go upstairs to bed, now i have a raging headache. Husband comes in, takes a shower and leaves. i go to sleep, huband comes back at 1am wakes me up and asks here my mom is, her computer is gone and shes not in the house. i get up and go to the garage .. yep shes gone. not answering her text/calls. AWESOME!! Get into another fight with husband bc i said that i dont appreciate being stuck in the middle and how everyone made this my issue and i have to deal with it.
Mom is still not home & said that she wont be home tonight at all. DOUBLE AWESOME
so i came up with this idea. please let me know if you think this is a fair way to solve the issue:
I can’t give my mom 100k bc i dont have it so i want to sell the house. i know i can’t make that much money on it, but i think i can make at least 75-80k back. i will give her all the profits from the house. But for now, move her over to newly renovvated apartment building down the street from us. Rent is about $850 but she won’t be able to afford that all on her own. I can pay for 1/2 of th rent. So that $400 that i give her per month towards rent can come off the $100k that i want to pay her back. So if i start paying next month, then i only her $99,600 and each month that i pay, that is less money that i owe her.
I dont know what else to do?? suggestions thoughts would be great.
PS: this was supposed to be my birthday weekend so im feeling a bit selfish since its kinda ruined now. TRIPLE AWESOME.