(Closed) In serious need of help! Sister got engaged but…

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 17
106 posts
Blushing bee

I don’t think anyone would be mad at you for getting engaged, and if your sister sees it that way then that’s her problem. It’s not like you’re saying to anyone “Well because she got engaged now I need to do it too,” and your BF is right, stop putting off your life for everyone else! You deserve happiness too, so don’t stress about it Smile

Post # 18
649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I do understand why you’re worried…my twin sister got engaged 2 years ago (still not married)…when I got engaged (december) and set my date (3 months before hers, but last I heard she was pushing it back a year, but is now not), my sister had a cow….so I do understand where you’re coming from…

My suggestion?  Do what YOU want…..live YOUR life and if she can’t be happy for you that’s her problem….just remember, you’re not getting having just a wedding, you’re preparing for a marriage, and THAT’S the important part….

Post # 21
1302 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with the PPs, this is your life and you shouldn’t put it on hold for anyone! People that love you will be happy and excited for you.  Please don’t feel bad…..let your BF plan the proposal that you deserve and enjoy every second of this time in your life.  You don’t need to give anyone excuses or explanations.

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