(Closed) In tears as I write this, please help :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 227
298 posts
Helper bee

Thank goodness you didn’t marry this guy-even with just reading the first post I could tell something deeper was up. I hope you’ve learned how to live more independently and hope the best for your future- you deserve way more than someone abusive like that!

Post # 228
1073 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Wow I just read through all of that and I’m so glad it didn’t end badly. I’m happy for you!

Post # 229
160 posts
Blushing bee

Like others said. This situation is forshadowing financal situations y’all may have down the road in the marriage. Honestly, I’m on team hold off the engagement. You guys both seem pretty immature and materialistic. You for wanting a 2600 engagment ring when you guys seem like young college students bearly getting by. Him for nickel and diming when you basically brought your own ring. I find it hard to believe your moissy was equal with your setting in price unless you got a honker. I see no reason why he couldn’t cover the replating and insurance to balance out the cost between the two of you. 

If money is to tight, I’m scratching my head on why you would splurge on such a luxury item. He could have saved up some money and got you a esty replica of your dream setting and a really nice ebay moissy for half the price of what you probably paid in whole for your ring. 


Edit: Just read the update. Good for you! Hopefully it goes well with this guy.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 4 months ago by mercatbride.
Post # 230
2409 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

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weddingflower4321: I’m so happy for you — breaking the pattern of abuse is hard!

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