(Closed) In tears… Remind me that it isn’t important…

posted 12 years ago in Beehive
Post # 32
1 posts
  • Wedding: April 2008

It’ll all be ok, I promise!  We have lots of people here that are willing to help!

 What were your colors?  I live in the Chicago area (do you have any family that’s here, I could pass some decor off to them).  I have a bunch of stuff left over in white, yellow, pink and gold.  

 Just let us know what we can do for you!!  And your dress may be salvageable – try a dry cleaners!  

Post # 33
378 posts
Helper bee

I’m here to help too! And I can’t imagine what you must be going through, although I almost had to. You’ve all see the photos of the houses falling into what was once Lake Delton in Wisconsin? Yeah, my reception site is on Lake Delton but as of right now, everything seems to be ok with them. And thankfully, my parents’ house, which is down the Wisconsin River from the Dells, didn’t get hit by anything major as far as flooding, although they were told to evacuate. They’re just amazed at the items they’ve seen floating in the river – mattresses, dressers, piers, shoes, you name it.

Let us know what we can do to help!

Post # 34
5 posts
  • Wedding: August 2009

Hello Iowa Neighbor…I live just south of you in Marshalltown…so I also have the flooding…I was googling Noah’s blue prints early! I just got engaged so I have nothing to give or offer wedding wise!  However, if you need help or need something picked up around this area or Ames…just let me know.  Mr. Darb is out of town right now so I have nothing to do but squigee (sp?) my basement and check gutters! 

 Just remember…it doesn’t matter when, where or how you get married it’s the fact you are marrying the love of your life!

Good Luck and keep your chin up…Just keep in mind the residents of Parkersburg and New Hartford. 


Post # 35
22 posts

let us know what you need! my wedding was last november and i still have tons of clean votives of all sizes plus unused candles to go with them! i sure hope we hear from you soon… i can’t remember off the top of my head what we still have left from our wedding, but if i have something you need, it’s YOURS!

Post # 36
22 posts
  • Wedding: August 2008

I am so sorry is there anything I can send? What was your theme/colors I would be so happy to help! Post your colors never fear you are not alone and remember as many people have said at the end of the day people are coming to see you and your fiance . Paper, candles and favors really don’t mean as much when you put it in the context of marrying your best friend.


Hugs and love from Texas 

Post # 37
963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009 - Bernardo Winery

You are in my prayers sweetie… just remember that you have your Fiance and your family and at the end of the day you will be married and that is what is important.
I wish I lived closer, but it looks like so many wonderful girls have offered to help 🙂

Post # 38
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2020

I wish I could help, but I’m actually on vacation right now and don’t have anything with me of course. My heart does go out to you though and I hope everything turns out fantastic. 

Post # 39
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I’m very sorry this is happening.  Keep your head up, as long as you focus on the fact that you’re getting to spend the rest of your life with the one you love, none of this really matters in the long run…. 

Please post a list of items you need and your wedding colors, if I have anything you can use, it’s yours.

Post # 40
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Our backyard!

I’m so sorry to hear about this, I can’t even imagine what you’re going through.  Please let us know if there’s anything we can do to help!  Us bees are quite crafty and would love to help out if at all possible!  Good luck with everything, I have a feeling you’ll pull through and have a magnificent wedding.  


Post # 42
87 posts
Worker bee

Wow.  I’m so glad things are working out for you.  What a tough situation to be in and not only are you making the best of it, but you get to be really grateful and receive a lot of love and support from a lot of other people.  Despite this misfortune, you are so blessed!

Congratulations on the upcoming nuptials! 

Post # 43
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2020 - Rainforest wedding, beachfront restaurant reception

Thank you for the update! I am glad that things are falling into place. That is so cool that you’ll be wearing your cousin’s dress! Your wedding will be so meaningful because of the generosity that you are experiencing and because of your wonderful perspective. Please give us a post-wedding update. The hive is rooting for you!

Post # 44
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

i am so glad to hear you have been to make lemonade from your lemons and you sound like you are relaxed and ready to roll with the flow.

i’m also glad you posted this problem, because i don’t know about anyone else, but i think it gives a lot perspective to all the things we as brides freak out about during the planning process.

best wishes on your wedding day =) 

Post # 45
164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2007 - Hyatt Lodge, Oak Brook IL

Wow, I really admire you, and wish you all the best for your wedding and beyond! Everything will be wonderful because you are marrying the man you love, surrounded by the people you love. Nothing could be better!!


Post # 46
8 posts
  • Wedding: August 2020 - Ceremony at Crissy Field and Reception at the Green Room

This entire thread brought tears to my eyes.  It’s so nice to have such a wonderful community, and to read your update.  Good for you for having such a wonderful attitude and for being so thankful.  Best wishes, and have a wonderful wedding!

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