(Closed) Inability to O

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
1262 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

em370:  I wouldn’t worry about it during sex then for a while. No woman that I know O’s until sex is practiced. I would focus more on learning how to please yourself. If you don’t know how to make yourself feel good, how could you possibly teach someone else?

Post # 17
495 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Ive never in my life had a ”G Spot” Orgasm. Its all clitoral stimuation for me. Ive had amazing sex, with more than one person in my life as well as great self sex and still never had one.

There are more women in the world you CANT have G Spot Orgasms more than women who do. Actually over 70% of women dont, so dont feel bad, I dont. 

Dont bother stressing out or ruining sex time by TRYING to have one. Just enjoy what you are doing and if it happens, it happens.

Post # 18
560 posts
Busy bee

I would suggest deep breathing to help get your orgasm. when it starts  feeling “too good” start taking deep breaths and don’t stop whatever you are doing. it sounds to me like you are on the verge of a clitoral orgasm and you are stopping too soon.

One position that always used to get me there clitorally when I was just starting out was me on top, but with him sitting up on the couch/chair with me facing him..it opened me up a little bit and got my clit stimulation.


Good luck!

Post # 19
5659 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I know very few women who orgasm easily. I suggest you do some one on one time to try and get a better sense of what you like and what works for you. Plus, once you O alone, you won’t feel so much pressure to O during sex. I need clitoral stimulation EVERY TIME to get there, most of us do honestly.

Post # 20
9555 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would buy a small vibrator like the silver bullet and just try it out by yourself for a bit. Once you’ve O’d it will become easier to do it again, IMO. You can also use the vibe during sex for clitoral stimulation, if you’re into that.

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