(Closed) Including future SIL in wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Esquia82:  My SIL isn’t in my briadal party either. She is also quite a bit older than me. I’m thinking of asking her to do a reading as she is quite out spoken and confident. I haven’t asked her yet though… I’d also be interested to see other ways I could inlcude her incase she says no to the reading!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

I am hoping that my Future Sister-In-Law will be able to do a reading, but if you don’t want readings, maybe she could play something during the ceremony or sing or hand out programs?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can definitely include her in any bridesmaid activities, like spa days, getting ready pre ceremony, get your nails done together, etc.

i wouldn’t give her too much of a ‘job’ at the reception because she should be able to enjoy it. But if you want to ask her to hand out programs or a reading, that woudl be nice, and she knows many of the guests sinc she is immediate family.

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