Post # 17
@BellaDee: No worries. I appreciate your support and input. Everyone has different experiences and I thiink it depends a lot on where we live and who takes care of us. Every doc has their own routine, and my experience is that they are good at what they do all the time… in terms of procedures. I don’t want someone trying something they wouldn’t normally do on me. Ya know? There’s so many ways to do things and not every doc is an expert on every procedure. Definitely something to always consider with these types of decisions.
Post # 18
@GrannyPantiesRock: ugh I’m so sorry you have to go through all of this. sending support your way. I hope you are able to begin healing soon. Xo
Post # 19
@GrannyPantiesRock: I just want to say how very sorry I am that you are going through this. This may not be of comfort now when you’re in the very worst of it with no certain end in sight- but this too shall pass. You WILL get through this. It has been hard and it will continue to be hard but you will emerge from it, get pregnant again, and have a beautiful baby. Hang in there, you can do it.
Post # 20
I am so sorry you are going through all of this, it’s pretty hellish and what horrible timing. I went through a very similar scenario as you with my first miscarriage. I wrote a thread about it. I desperately wanted to avoid a d and c. I did 3 courses of meds and unfortunately still had retained tissue. My second mc the meds worked. I needed to do whatever I could to avoid the d and c for my own piece of mind, maybe part of that was that I needed to feel like my body could do something right in all of the crap that was going on and that I have some kind of control. I had a much easier time accepting the d and c knowing I had done everything I could to try and prevent it. In the end it really wasn’t so bad and it was a relief to know the d and c at least put an end to the ordeal. I got pregnant very quickly after both of my miscarriages and am now 23 weeks with a little girl. Good luck! Feel free to pm me if you want to talk about more. I found it really hard to talk to people about it in real life and really appreciated a bee that reached out to me. Good luck and big hugs
Post # 21
@GrannyPantiesRock: I am so sorry you are still going thru all this. I will keep you in my thoughts.
Post # 22
Thank you everyone for your kindness. It really does mean a lot to me. I’m hoping this round is successful. It is certainly more painful. Every 4 minutes or so for the last 2 hours I get horrendous cramps and all I can do is moan through them. I’ve never been in labor, so I don’t know how comparable this pain is. I think I could handle just about anything to bring a healthy baby into the world, but I feel like the pain is going to break me right now becasue there is no happy ending waiting for me.
Post # 23
I am so upset that you have to go through all of this again- you just don’t deserve this. I’m very sorry. We are all thinking of you and I’m keeping you in my prayers.
Post # 24
I am so so sorry you’re still going through this. It’s just so unfair. I really hope the pain passes soon and you can start healing.
Post # 25
Sorry you have to go through this pain, heartache and process all over again.
Post # 26
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Post # 27
@GrannyPantiesRock: Hope you’re feeling a little better today hun.