(Closed) Incredibly annoyed with my overbearing mother. ::vent::

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@secretsquirrel11: I totally feel you. I have a similar situation that I have dealt with all my life. The important thing to remember is to stay strong, remember that it is your and your FI’s wedding. This is something that I am constantly reminding myself of.

You have found someone to love you for who you are, and you are now getting married! That’s how I deal with stress that I get. You and your Fiance are a team, he sounds very supportive so use him as your anchor. Be strong, and know that you aren’t alone!

Post # 4
Bee
981 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

You have the right to call your mom on her negativity and tell her you won’t tolerate being around it. My siblings and I had to do something similar with our parents. She may have problems with depression, or it could just be a habit. Even if she does realize she is doing it (and does it on purpose) it doesn’t mean that you have to stand by and take it. You can tell her lovingly that it’s very hard for you and that you are going to call her on it… it could make a difference!

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