(Closed) Incredibly Rude Guest Demands!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

That’s amazing that some people think they can plan other people’s weddings! I would have told her that she is no longer invited. You were way more polite than I would have been.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

It’s your day, you’ve already worked hard. I don’t think  anyone really has the right to say put me here or this and that! So kudos! But don’t let it get to you! Happy Planning!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Why do people seem to think they are the be all & end all!!! They should be thankful they are invited if they are going to act like that!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Evie19: I hate that – when people get rewarded for their bad behavior. My thought process is “she’s an entitled #$^%&, so she therefore, doesn’t get an invite,” not “so we better invite her!” That doesn’t make sense to me.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow you have more patience than myself. I honestly would have told her due to her disrespect and rude behavior, her attendance would not be neccessary.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Evie19:  Holy crap you’re a saint, I would have said “You know what, I actually just had some openings … THE SPOTS I HAD RESERVED FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY”.

I’m sorry, I can only be nice to a certain extent. And as much as it’s (reception) suppose to be an event to thank your guests for being part of your day, they don’t get to dictate any part of it except whether they will be there or not.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

It’s amazing. For no other type of party would a guest feel this entitled. Weddings bring out the worst in people.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh hell no. Some people are insane.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Evie19: I hear that! My parents are paying too. My next door neighbor was talking to my mom and said her pre-teen daughters can’t wait for my wedding. They weren’t invited, but my mom didn’t know what to do, and now we’re going to invite them at my mom’s insistence. I don’t really mind because they’re pretty harmless, but still – what a faux pas to assume your kids are invited!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@redheadem: I agree with you….She would have been uninvited…Plus, she is not close to OP or FH…OHHHH NOOOO!!!!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wow!! She’s got some nerve. Who does she think she is?? I think when she insisted that you change the seating plans I would have told that they can sit in those seats or not come at all, her choice. 

So sorry you’re dealing with this crap so close to your wedding!

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