(Closed) indirectly talking commitment/ free wedding planner in the mail

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3968 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@txbella:  I don’t see why it would be an issue as far as opening the account. You could maybe say, I’ve been thinking about costs, and knowing we want a wedding AND the land, we should be saving X amount per month. You’re not pushing a proposal, you’re not pushing anything, you’re saying, we have these future undetermined plans, and it’d be a great way to work towards them. He sounds like he’s on board, so I think you’re ok!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I don’t see why you shouldn’t bring up saving for a wedding. He is paying off a ring so he knows you will be gettng engaged soonish and of course married a year or more after that. He knows its coming, so why not mention it? 

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