(Closed) Infertility , having one of those days .

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

My heart hurts for you bee <3 I can’t imagine what you must be going through, especially when friends are having their own children. Don’t ever think you are whining! We are all here for you.

Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

Colormepink :  hugs! We had the same thing at our first IUI but we used what we he had since I was there and ovulating.  I hope you have better luck than us as we are meeting with our RE in September to start IVF.  It sucks and sometimes it’s ok to come find a safe space and have a temper tantrum and let it all out!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

My heart goes out to you! I did 5 IUI’s with great numbers and they all failed. But we got pregnant naturally right before our IVF consultation. I’m sure your RE will have some suggestions to help your husbands count go up, and if you have IUI’s covered, definitely try a few more if this one fails! Try to keep hope alive, it can happen at any time, with any count and any number of follicles. Stay strong xo

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

I’m so sorry. I’m kind of in the same place. Just had my first IUI yesterday (2 follies with femara). We were actually given a success rate (15%). This is our 16th cycle and I totally understand your difficulties. All my best friends had babies in the past year. It’s devastating. As for IVF, we will be paying all out of pocket as well. Given the low success rates, I’m just using these IUIs as stepping stones to IVF in my heart and just mentally preparing to do IVF. An 85% failure rate isn’t worth getting my hopes up for. Of course, I do hope you break the odds and have success. Good luck and hugs! Hang in there! This will be over at some point!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

Colormepink :  hug I understand and it sucks.  We just went through our first MC after 10 months TTC.  My neighbor just told me she got her BFP after 1 month of trying.  It’s not fair 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

First off, I’m sorry the nurse said that to you while you were on the table! How insensitive, whether it’s true or not!! Dealing with that stuff she should know how emotional infertility is. Second, I will keep my fingers crossed so tight that it works!! We are dealing with MFI and I’m not sure we’d even quality for IUI’s. Meeting with a fertility specialist in a few weeks to see what our plan is. Depending on what they say will base whether we try and IUI or go straight to IVF. So I definitely feel your pain… this process has been 100% different and harder than I ever imagined! 

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