- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
Hi! Wow. It has been months (okay..probably over a year, almost now!) since I posted here! I got married in June of last year and basically swore off the Bee after that because I was jealous of everyone else getting married (lol). But now I miss I realized the comradery and such! 🙂
Anyway. My hubby and I have a unique situation when it comes to having babies. We had a daughter in Oct. 2008 and back in Oct. of 2009, he was injured in a truck accident and is now a paraplegic (no feeling from the chest down). We have been wanting to have another baby forever now. I never thought that we would have this far of a separation between our first born and our second born and it really sucks. Without going into too much detail, he can get an erection but has not ejaculated since his accident.
We asked for a referral to a fertility specialist back in Februrary of this year. We received a letter back in April from the clinic saying that the doctor is booking into November and that they’d contact us with a date for an appointment as soon as possibile. Well, it’s been 6 months since our referral and we still don’t have a date. We have phoned to make sure we’re still on the list and we are but the doctor is just THAT busy. So I’m not even sure what kind of time frame we’re looking at. Will she get us an appointment in November or will it be November before they even contact us with an appointment date, meaning we won’t even get in to see the doctor until 2013? *head shake* So stressful.
I basically am just wondering if there are any other ladies on here dealing with infertility and, how on earth do you deal with it? All I ever see when I log into Facebook is someone else confirming they’re pregnant and having more babies and I just get so jealous. Sometimes, honestly, seeing someone’s pregnancy announcement (or hearing that someone I know is pregnant) ruins my day. =[