(Closed) Initiating conversation…What if the girl didn’t bring up at all?

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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@Isilme: Wow, that’s a pretty good write up on today’s role reversal in the relationship department. I rarely read really long posts, but you kept me reading.


I am the one who actually got verbally said engagement, but in a sense you could say his desire for us to move in together and seeing us having a life together, maybe he was the first to actually bring it up?? He kind of beat around the bush by his phrasing but I got what he was saying, I just took the more blunt approach and said, “Okay, I want to marry you” (yeah. . . we’re hitting the one year mark and I pretty much made it crystal clear). Soo… I knew with him from the start I’d be making a lot of the plans, and confessing before he did. It’s just how he is, I’ve learned this from months of waiting for him to come around and realize how much I wanted him to go out with me (lol took forever to get to the dating point).

Post # 33
19 posts
  • Wedding: January 2005

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@sarasouth:  Nooooo! We Sara’s with no h’s must stick together!

Post # 34
818 posts
Busy bee

I brought it up first because we’d been together for over two years at the time and I wanted to know if he thought we were heading in that direction or not.

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