Post # 1
There has been so much drama with the my inlaws lately. I am seriuosly thinking of calling off this huge wedding we have been planning and just the two of us heading off to somewhere beautiful to get married. I can see it now. Beautiful beaches, crystal water, the smell of the ocean, and the man I love!!! Sound like a great plan!
Post # 4
@KaylaElicia_610: It is not about them, it is about the two of you. Remind them of this. I called off my wedding because of inlaws, but now on our 2nd attempt, both Fiance and I are more assertive and have explained our wishes in full. You have to be loving but firm, include them but not detract from the fact it is your wedding..! We have children who want to see us marry….If you can’t find any reason for a big wedding…elope lol!
Post # 5
I am sorry you have been pushed to this point. If I had inlaws that were causing stress and we all know there is not a lot you can do with them. So I would elope and just enjoy my husband because when the dust settles it’s about you two…There will be some Bees who wont agree but you have to do what is best for you two. Family is lovely but they can be overwhelming sometimes.
We dont have Father-In-Law on either side so it makes it more about us and less about anybody else.
Post # 6
@KaylaElicia_610: How about your family? I don’t like the idea of eloping just because some family is obnoxious. That’s penalising everyone (even the nice and supportive relatives) for the actions of a few.
Post # 7
Did you Fiance try talking to them ?
Post # 8
The issues we are having with his family arent wedding related. His mother is upset with me because of a post about myself i put on facebook and one of her family members called her upset about it. The post had nothing to do with anyone in his family nor was it even a bad post. Its very childish and pointless and i told her that. Now his intire family is upset with me. My Fiance is very irritated with his family and has talked to his mother. He says there is no reason for her to be upset. This is why i hate facebook. People can read your posts however they want. I would understand if it was a rude post but it wasnt and it was clearly about myself.I feel like they are just making up reason for them not liking me. I am only planning a wedding so both our families can celerabte our marrage with us. I have already talked to my family and they are ok with us doing this since it is about us and not a party.
Post # 9
i actually felt like doing the same thing. we decided to just do the wedding. we are almost there lol. but there was a point i really f*cking freaked out and cried and told my Fiance lets just leave. forget everyone else who doesnt even care. they wanted us to get married sooooo bad and now i feel like no one is really helping. or like they care. at all. i mean i feel like my family does but idk. its not what i thought it was going to be like.i had this thought only months before so im going to conitue with it but today im like gosh i wish i could just quit. quit it all. quit my job and just go.
if you are getting married in 2014. then elope. it ends up being sooooo much work and money!
Post # 10
@KaylaElicia_610: Yes, yes, yes.. Just like Kimy stated, it’s about you two NOT them.
Post # 11
@KaylaElicia_610: About the facebook post – I know exactly how you feel. Extremely annoying.