(Closed) Inlaws (Agghhhhhh)

posted 6 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should we
    Elope : (5 votes)
    63 %
    Continue planning our wedding : (3 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1177 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    DO IT!

    Post # 4
    Member
    1066 posts
    Bumble bee

    @KaylaElicia_610:  It is not about them, it is about the two of you. Remind them of this. I called off my wedding because of inlaws, but now on our 2nd attempt, both Fiance and I are more assertive and have explained our wishes in full. You have to be loving but firm, include them but not detract from the fact it is your wedding..! We have children who want to see us marry….If you can’t find any reason for a big wedding…elope lol!

    Post # 5
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    1463 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I am sorry you have been pushed to this point. If I had inlaws that were causing stress and we all know there is not a lot you can do with them. So I would elope and just enjoy my husband because when the dust settles it’s about you two…There will be some Bees who wont agree but you have to do what is best for you two. Family is lovely but they can be overwhelming sometimes.

    We dont have Father-In-Law on either side so it makes it more about us and less about anybody else.

    BIG HUG 

    Post # 6
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    7679 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @KaylaElicia_610:  How about your family? I don’t like the idea of eloping just because some family is obnoxious. That’s penalising everyone (even the nice and supportive relatives) for the actions of a few.

    Post # 7
    Member
    245 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Did you Fiance try talking to them ?

    Post # 9
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    2120 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    i actually felt like doing the same thing. we decided to just do the wedding. we are almost there lol. but there was a point i really f*cking freaked out and cried and told my Fiance lets just leave. forget everyone else who doesnt even care. they wanted us to get married sooooo bad and now i feel like no one is really helping. or like they care. at all. i mean i feel like my family does but idk. its not what i thought it was going to be like.i had this thought only months before so im going to conitue with it but today im like gosh i wish i could just quit. quit it all. quit my job and just go.

    if you are getting married in 2014. then elope. it ends up being sooooo much work and money!

    Post # 10
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    513 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @KaylaElicia_610:  Yes, yes, yes.. Just like Kimy stated, it’s about you two NOT them.

    Post # 11
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    513 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @KaylaElicia_610:  About the facebook post – I know exactly how you feel. Extremely annoying.

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