- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
My Fiance brother is the Bestman his signing the papers for us and his wife is a bridesmaid we also made there son our ring boy. Our wedding is two weeks away 9/10/11 and I was sent an email a few days ago saying they r only staying for the church then leaving, I asked if they can stay for pics and they agreed, now I got another message fr his sister who is also a bridesmaid that her to as well is only staying for the church and pics then leaving. This wont effect the bridal party because we will only be 2 couples less and there partnered off with there son and wife. So all is fine there, but it just eeerrrkks me that they agreed months ago to stand in our wedding and now there doing this. Im happy for my Fiance that they will be there to see him get married but why accept to be in the bridal party if you knew you didnt want to.Personally I wish they would give up there dresses and not even be in the party, but I won’t want that kind of issues with my Fiance. I agreed to allow the ladies to stand in the wedding even though I have never met them at all, thinking they would be gracious enough to take part in there brothers wedding. Our day is going to be beautiful and as much as they try they will not ruin our day for us. I love him with all my heart and am looking forward to spending my life as his wife. I’ll just call them hiccups LOL..