(Closed) INLAWS RUINING OUR LIVES!!!!!!!!! LONG BUT CRAZY!!!!!!!!1

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 18
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377 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am so sorry!  She is a wack job!  I don’t care if you don’t like people for whatever reason, but interfearing with their personal lives is crossing the line big time.  I’d like to punch her for you!

Post # 19
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102 posts
Blushing bee

haha I actually don’t think you can prevent someone from coming into a church-BUT if she were to make a scene/act unruly I’m sure they’d remove her. You can definitely keep her from your venue though!

Post # 21
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2019 - Paris, France

@julieandjaiden: Who thought marrying the love of your life would come with all of these problems right? I know I sure didn’t

Post # 22
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8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow- this stuff seriously happens?  Sounds like a soap opera! Dont give in to her little games, if she is this crazy, chances are that her friends and family members already know about it. 

The sweetest revenge will be when you have an amazing and happy wedding and she has to lay in the bed she made! Stay Strong!!

Post # 24
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2837 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@julieandjaiden: If I were you, I would contact my local police department and file a police report for harrassment, or whatever she can be charged for. Maybe even stalking, since she’s going to places you frequent, pretending to be you, or messing with your general lives. In either event, you don’t know the extent to which she’s capable. I would document dates of incidents and what she did to corroborate what shes’ done.

The woman has to learn that she can not conduct herself in such a disruptive manner and not face any consequences. Your fiancee is “done” with her, as you say, so he should have no problem following through on this with you.

Ask your venue to produce records of her having called from her work place, and do the same with your rental community. Get the names of the people to whom she spoke, and have them give statements to the authorities as well. Seriously. You can be done with her if you are proactive. Otherwise, she’ll just continue to be a thorn in your side, and you’ll keep writing these posts to weddingbee.

Post # 26
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2837 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@julieandjaiden: I’d do it sooner rather than later just so that your wedding will go off without a hitch, but moreso for the recency effect. If you have evidence on your side, things are more apt to be done about it. If you wait, and the evidence gets erased, you’re out of luck.

But I understand why you’d want to wait till after the wedding, considering you’ve got a full plate with school and getting things in order with your home. But a phone call will only take a couple of minutes. It won’t hurt to at least give it a try, and you’ll be one step closer to putting this woman in her place. She’s done it to others before you, she’ll keep doing it afterwards too.

Anyway, I wish you luck. There’s always judge judy too. 🙂

Post # 27
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497 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

GAH! Forget it, just elope.

Post # 28
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574 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

You do realize that you can take them to civil court and sue them for harassment, right?

And yes, you can request the church not let someone in. They don’t want drama. And they don’t want the police at their church. Talk to someon in charge ASAP.

Post # 29
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37 posts
Newbee

Kick her in the balls cause obviously she has them!!! OH yeah, Vegas is the option for you!!!!

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