(Closed) Insecure Bridesmaid.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

@Pinksapphire:  Could you take a picture of her in the dress, then show it to her with one of her at her biggest.
Its great you understand that shes still seeing herself as a size 20, speaking from experience its hard to let that go when you have been that size all your life.

Maybe you could even talk to her about your feelings?

Post # 5
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Coming from a girl who lost a ton of weight but is still dealing with “big girl” ghosts… there really isn’t much you can do but be honest with her. Those will be your wedding pictures and yours only. You plan on posting them on facebook. If she doesn’t want to be tagged, you wont tag her. But you have final say. If she doesn’t like it, then she will have to sit out of the pictures all together.

As for building her self-esteem, hopefully she will learn her true size in time. Just be reassuring.

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